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Definitive Guide for Choosing the Best Metal Dildo

Are you looking to spice up your sex life with a little metal in the mix? Well, you've come to the right place! In this definitive guide, we'll talk about metal dildos — what they are, why you should consider using one, and how to make the most of your new toy. So, grab a glass of wine, get comfortable, and let's dive in!

What are Metal Dildos?

Metal dildos are sex toys made of metal, typically stainless steel, aluminum, or titanium. They come in many shapes and sizes, from small and discreet to large and imposing. The size and shape of the dildo will depend on your personal preferences and what you plan to use it for. Some metal dildos are designed for vaginal penetration, while others are designed for anal penetration. Some have a curved shape for G-spot or P-spot stimulation, while others are straight for a more traditional feel.

When it comes to texture, metal dildos can be smooth or textured. Smooth metal dildos provide a more traditional feel and are great for those who prefer a more subtle sensation. Textured metal dildos, on the other hand, can provide added stimulation and be great for those who prefer a more intense sensation. Some metal dildos have intricate designs carved into them, such as spirals or ridges, which can also provide added stimulation.

Another thing to consider when choosing a metal dildo is the material it is made of. Stainless steel is the most common material used for metal dildos; it is hypoallergenic, nonporous, and easy to clean. Aluminum is a lightweight and durable option; it is also nonporous but less common. Finally, titanium is a very strong and durable option but is also more expensive than the other options. Metal dildos are also a popular choice for BDSM and temperature play.

Why Consider Using a Metal Dildo?

There are a few reasons why you should consider using a metal dildo. First and foremost, they are incredibly durable. Unlike silicone or rubber, metal dildos won't wear out or degrade over time. They can last a lifetime with proper care and maintenance. Another reason to consider metal dildos is the sensation they provide. Metal is a great conductor of heat and cold, so you can heat up or cool down your dildo for added stimulation. The weight and firmness of metal can provide a unique sensation different from other materials.

How to Choose the Right Metal Dildo for You

When it comes to choosing a metal dildo, there are a few things you should keep in mind.

  • Do you want something small and discreet, or are you looking for something larger?
  • Do you prefer a smooth surface, or do you want something with texture?
  • Do you want one with intricate designs or one that’s simple and sleek?
  • Are you planning to use it for vaginal or anal play?
  • Will you use it alone or with a partner?

These questions can help you choose the perfect metal dildo for your needs. Why not try Polii, our new G-Spot stainless steel dildo?

Caring for Your Metal Dildo

Once you've chosen the perfect metal dildo, it's important to know how to care for it. First and foremost, always make sure to clean your dildo before and after each use. You can use warm water and mild soap or a sex toy cleaner. Metal is nonporous, so it does not absorb moisture and bacteria. So, after cleaning it, dry it thoroughly before storing it. Keep it cool and dry, away from heat and direct sunlight. Avoid storing it in a humid place like a bathroom, as this can cause rust or corrosion.

Getting the Most Out of Your Metal Dildo

Now that you have your metal dildo and know how to care for it, it's time to have some fun! One of the best things about metal dildos is that they can be heated up or cooled down for added stimulation. To heat up your dildo, simply submerge it in a bowl of warm water. To cool it down, submerge it in a bowl of ice water.

Another way to get the most out of your metal dildo is to experiment with different lubricants. Because metal is a smooth surface, it can be a great option to experiment with different lubricants, such as silicone-based or oil-based lubricants. These lubricants can provide a different sensation than water-based lubricants and enhance the overall experience.

You can also experiment with different positions and techniques when using your metal dildo. Because of the weight and firmness of metal, it can provide a different sensation than other materials. Try using it in different positions, such as doggy-style or missionary, and see how it feels. You can also try using it with a partner and see how it enhances your sexual experience.

Lastly, don't be afraid to use your metal dildo in different ways. It's not just for vaginal or anal play; you can also use it for massaging or even as a decorative piece!

Safety Considerations

When using a metal dildo, it's important to keep safety in mind. Firstly, it is essential to use adequate lubrication to avoid any discomfort or injury. Since metal is a smooth surface, it may require more lubricant than other materials. Also, because of the weight and firmness of metal dildos, be mindful of the force you are using and take care not to cause any injury.

Another safety consideration to keep in mind is temperature play. While heating or cooling a metal dildo can provide added stimulation, it's important to test the temperature of the dildo before inserting it. You can do this by holding the dildo to the inside of your wrist or elbow, which has sensitive skin and will give you a good indication of the dildo's temperature. Never use boiling water to heat your dildo, and never put it in the freezer.


In conclusion, metal dildos are a unique and durable option for those looking to spice up their sex life. They offer a variety of shapes, sizes, and designs to choose from, and the sensation they provide is unlike anything else. With proper care and maintenance, your metal dildo can last a lifetime. So, go forth and explore the world of metal dildos, and have fun!

About Author
Ellie Cooper
Ellie is a freelance writer and pleasure enthusiast. She is very comfortable talking about vaginas, scaling mountains and eating spicy food, but not parallel parking. She lives with a very tubby cat named Charles who likes to get involved with the writing process by sleeping on her keyboard.
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